Astrological Reasons for Failure in Love Affairs and Love Marriages

Love can come only with trust. It you are not mature enough to give trust than you are not mature to love. Fear, dishonesty, mistrust, jealousy, possessive nature, self-indulgent, extremely enough manipulative attitude, flirtations and fickle tendencies can cause frequent separations or discord in love affairs and love marriages.

Inharmonious astrological aspects create a great difficulty and tension in the relationships and the relationships begin and end suddenly with extreme difficulty, pain and anguish.
 
Factors responsible for love affairs are:

• Ascendant: general nature and personality of the native.
• 5th house/lord: inclinations and passion for love, courtship, intercourse
• 7th house/lord: conjugal life
• 12th house/lord: obstructions in life and pleasure of bed
• Venus: inclination for sensual and pleasures
• Moon: indicates emotional state of mind
• Mars: governs the courage for passionate love affairs
• Rahu: signifies craving for pleasures.

Astrological combinations for failed love marriages/affairs:

Love marriages /affairs are failing for several astrological reasons: -

Venus:

• Attitude towards love is determined by Venus, its strength, location and its interrelationship with others planets.
• Weakness of Venus indicates lack of passion for love.
• Venus placed between Sun and Moon indicates failure in love affairs.
• Inharmonious relation between Venus and Moon makes the native dissatisfied with his own love life and the flirtatious and fickle nature of native may cause a constant need for variety.
• Inharmonious relation between Venus and Mars's creates immediate boredoms in the intimate relationships.
• Inharmonious relation between Venus and Saturn causes frequent separations due to difficulty of expressing emotions.
• Rahu's affliction to Venus indicates short terms lived involvements and temporary craving for sexual pleasures.
• Venus posited in the constellation of Sun and influenced by Moon indicates failed love affairs/marriages.

Moon:

• The planetary body which mainly governs human emotion is the moon. Different aspects between Moon and other planets give stress or ease in expressing and understanding the emotions.
• Moon and Sun conjunction indicates separation in physical or emotional forms between you and your partners.
• Inharmonious relation between Moon and Mercury indicates over-anxious, confuse and stressful mind which may cause love crises due to extreme nervousness.
• Inharmonious aspects of Venus and Moon create irritability and dissatisfaction in a relationship.
• Moon and Mars in bad aspects creates over intensity of emotional expression and one sided love affairs.
• Moon and Saturn related in any way in a horoscope creates the feeling of inferiority, depression and sadness in the native which is suicidal for a love relationship.

• Moon and Mars adverse position/ influence have the ability to influence love-affairs negatively.

5th/7th house:

• 5th house indicates native's love affairs, the degree of success and failure in love affairs, legitimate and illegitimate attraction and social intercourse between sexes prior to wedlock after marriage.
• 5th house/lord severely afflicted indicates failed love affairs.

• Seventh house/Saptmesh afflicted /associated with evil, the success of love marriage is questionable.
• Lord of 5th and lord of 7th house are not related to each other in any way always indicates failed love relation.
• If the lords of 5th And 7th are slow moving planets, indicates long lasting love relations and the native will never forget the emotional relation in his whole life time whether they are succeeded or failed love affairs.
• 12th house/lord indicates bed pleasures so it should be consider along with 5th/7th house/lord for successful love affairs.

Ways to strengthen love affairs which may further cumulate into marriage: 

• Worship Lord Venus.
• Remedies of lord of 5th/7th should be done.
• Strengthen Moon for strong mental state.
• Strengthen lord of 5th for strong emotional stand.

BY
GEETA JHA